So let’s see how we feel about things over the next few weeks or months (set a time here you feel comfortable with), and we’ll decide if there’s something more serious that we both want.”When you say this to a guy, there’s an unconscious button that’s pushed in his mind that tells him that you are a respectable and desirable woman who has the ability and the strength to pick and choose what happens in your life, and he better rise to the occasion.
By focusing on having fun and getting to know him during the first two stages, you’ve taken the pressure off of him, and he can naturally relax into the relationship.
That’s because the Convincer is the one who makes sure you spend time together and who pursues the Resistor.If you are the one doing the convincing, you do not create the space to see if HE will step forward and pursue YOU. Your “resistance” will also inspire him to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship.And if he doesn’t step up to plate, it’s best you know now!Check out my e Book, Red Rose Woman: The Enchantress Inside You and learn how to be an enchanting man-magnet.So take your foot off the accelerator and let a man initiate his interactions with you.
Only then will you progress to…This is that “in-between” stage.
Trying to play the “cool card” when you are anything but, isn’t going to bring him closer.
He’s going to smell a disharmonious vibe wafting off you: you say you’re fine but your energy screams, “Do you love me or not, and why don’t you show it more?!
Stop listening to all that advice telling you to play it cool...
Are you in the early stages of dating a man and wondering if he is as serious about you and you are about him?
If you’re both enjoying your time together, he treats you well, and you’re feeling good about the relationship in general, resist the urge to think too far ahead.