(ESTP, ISTP, ENTP, INTP) The “decision-making” mental processes (Harmony, Authenticity, Effectiveness, Accuracy) are ways we evaluate the world and determine their rightfulness, truthfulness and importance to us as people.
” According to Gary Chapman’s “The 5 Love Languages” we all express love a little differently.
In Chapman’s model, the 5 primary ways are: (For a quick reference listen to the Personality Hacker podcast “The 5 Love Languages.” For more in-depth information, read Chapman’s book of the same title.
(ESFP, ISFP, ENFP, INFP) All TJs use the mental process “Effectiveness” to make decisions.
(ESTJ, ISTJ, ENTJ, INTJ) All TPs use the mental process “Accuracy” to make decisions.
In any romantic or pair bond relationship, there are myriad ways that a couple communicates to each other. we’re looking for and sending endless signals to and from our mate.
And while there are a million things each person says (both verbally and non-verbally) every day, it could be argued that there really is only one thing we’re actually looking for: the answer to the question, “Do you love me?
When our mate can’t ‘read’ or ‘predict’ us (or vice versa! It’s a frustrating exercise trying to communicate love (and look for markers of love from your mate) only to watch the attempts fall flat.
In most things to ‘fail again, fail better’ is a noble pursuit, but in love if we believe the answer to our question “Do you love me?
So I did you a solid and summarized all the juicy bits here for you.
Find your type in this list and see what YOU’RE like to date. Find everyone you know and tell me this isn’t the most weirdly accurate thing ever.
It’s a great read – we highly recommend it.) These are five very important modalities of communicating love, and knowing which one you and your mate favor can make or break the relationship.