But to consider having sex with you, a woman has to about sex — especially with you.
Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.From there, you can immediately roll into your sexual question to open up a discussion.Your attitude has to convey that they’re a healthy part of building a romantic connection.I’m not expecting you walk up to random women with questions women like that. In fact, I’ve found that while that approach can work, you usually get a much stronger response and connection if you wait until later in the conversation.Of course, you don’t want to start with something extremely intimate.
That will come off as intense and discourage a woman from opening up. If she’s discussing them with you, you can move towards heavier ones.
You need to bring your conversations toward more intimate topics as an interaction progresses.
That’s how she’s going to get turned on and see you as a sexual prospect.
Because of this, women often won’t signal their interest first.
And they won’t talk about anything sexual until you do.
All you’re going to do is reinforce that this subject is shameful and wrong.